Something in your relationship brought you here...

Maybe it is the same argument looping on repeat. Maybe it is the quiet distance that has slowly replaced ease and connection. Or maybe, from the outside, things look “fine,” but inside you know something vital is missing.

If you are longing for a deeper, more connected, and more resilient relationship, the Getting the Love You Want Couples Weekend Intensive (August 21–23, Washington, DC) offers a powerful place to begin again—together.

This is an immersive, experiential weekend designed to shift how you understand and relate to one another at a foundational level.

What to expect

Rooted in Imago Relationship Therapy and informed by attachment and nervous system science, this workshop helps you make sense of why your relationship feels the way it does—and how your differences and histories are not obstacles, but essential pieces of the path toward connection.

·       Over the course of the weekend, you and your partner will:

·       Experience a new way of communicating that fosters safety, empathy, and real listening

·       Begin to understand the deeper emotional and developmental roots of recurring patterns

·       Learn how moments of conflict can become opportunities for connection

·       Build a shared framework for understanding each other more fully

·       Practice structured dialogue that supports clarity, regulation, and repair

This is not about fixing your partner or eliminating differences. It is about learning how to work with those differences in a way that creates connection rather than disconnection.

The intensive format allows you to stay with the process long enough to begin experiencing real shifts—not just insight, but a felt sense of what is possible between you.

And the work does not end when the weekend does.

Following the workshop, you will receive four months of guided follow-up support, including prompts, practices, and integration tools designed to help you continue deepening what you have begun. This ongoing structure helps you bring the experience into your daily life and sustain the changes you start to create together.

This weekend also lays a meaningful foundation for deeper work, whether that unfolds in therapy or through continued intentional practice as a couple. Many couples leave with a clearer understanding of what kind of support will help them continue growing.

You will be guided through the experience with your partner, while also benefiting from the shared energy of other couples who are engaging in this work alongside you.

This particular weekend is especially intimate.

Hosted in our home in Washington, DC, the setting offers a warm, grounded, and human space where you can slow down, feel supported, and focus fully on your relationship.

As facilitators, we bring decades of combined experience in couples work, Imago methodology, and nervous system-informed practice. We hold this work with both structure and care, supporting you in moving at a pace that allows for depth without overwhelm.

 Who is this for?

Couples often arrive feeling stuck, disconnected, or unsure of what is possible. They leave with a new framework for understanding each other, practical tools for connection, and a renewed sense of direction.

This workshop is for couples at many stages:

·       Couples who feel stuck in recurring patterns

·       Couples experiencing disconnection or distance

·       Couples preparing for marriage or deepening commitment

·       Couples who want to grow with more intention and awareness

You do not need to be in crisis to benefit. This is a space for couples who want to engage their relationship with curiosity, honesty, and care.

If you have been waiting for a moment to pause, reset, and begin relating in a new way, this is an invitation.

Join us August 21–23 for a weekend that can open the door to a different kind of relationship—one built with awareness, compassion, and intention—and supported long after the weekend ends.

Learn more and register here.